If a masochist bangs their funny bone, is it good or bad?

  Impact play is a big part of our kinky lives as a couple and we love exploring the intersection of erotic pain, dominance, and submission. Our toy collection reflects how hot we think pain play can be. We have tools that can cause every sort of sensation from the kiss of a feather to

Chips, dips, chains, whips

  Here’s a fun meme we’ve created that’s an homage to one of Kelly LeBrock’s lines in the 80s comedy film Weird Science. The m0vie was pretty decent, and Kelly’s performance was pitch perfect. Her original lines were: ‘You know, there’s going to be sex, drugs, rock-n-roll… chips, dips, chains, whips… You know, your basic high

A shared smile – yeah, it’s that good

  During one of our kinky playdates not long ago, we found ourselves in a very deep and meaningful space together. It was one of those moments when time sort of loses its meaning amidst all of the orgasms, pain, pleasure, and emotions. In our scene, a stern and loving, dominant needed to teach their

Anais Nin orgasm meme

  Anais Nin’s work is erotic, sexy, and smart. Here’s one of our favorite passages attributed to her that we’ve used to create this meme. Yours in kink, Amelie & Mark  

Patience is a virtue in BDSM

  We can all recall the old saying that patience is a virtue. That’s especially true for couples/moresomes considering a new kind of BDSM play. Every kinkster started somewhere. Maybe they took the deep plunge, or perhaps, felt the wavelets on the shoreline tickle their feet at first. Some began by sitting on the beach

Kink of the Week Dec 1-16, 2018: Collars

  Few pieces of BDSM gear contain more meaning than the collar. While some couples use the collar all the time, for us it forms part of our ritual of play. We always starts with a collaring ceremony that for us is full of meaning. It’s a special moment that symbolizes our passage from our everyday lives

Your kink kit: the basics

  When we were just beginning as kinksters, we started small – sexy clothes, candles and music with some bindings and buzzers on the side. Think vanilla cake layered with some sweet, some spice, and a sprinkle of salt. As an experienced S/M couple, we want to pass on some tips with you on what

Vibrators – Myth vs. Reality

Vibrators are fun additions to the kinky toy box and can add a wonderful depth to play sessions. For some people though, these toys can feel threatening or strange. We’re looking today at a few of the many myths that surround vibrators and how they can enhance what it is that we do (wiitwd). Bottom

Building a kinky play space

  Once Mark and I began our kinky explorations together, it felt like driving through landscapes we had never imagined. Around each bend was a new concept of what partners enjoyed and used to find sensual connections.  We quickly discovered we both loved latex, impact play, e-stim and bondage. As time went on, this added