Yes, it’s normal to be kinky

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Over the course of their lives, many people fantasize about BDSM, fetishes, and kinks. It takes courage and confidence to make the jump from just thinking about the good stuff to actually trying it.

Even though kinky, fetish-y, stuff has never been more visible in society, a bias still exists against people kinky people and the things we do.Among the many lessons we absorb as we grow is the one that tells us how to have sex, what attraction means, how to do it, and maybe most importantly, what NOT to do.

In BDSM world we’re coloring outside the lines and even though books and films like ‘50 Shades’ and ‘The Secretary’ were wildly popular, social mores continue to depict BDSM, kinks, and fetishes, as somehow abnormal or aberrant.

Potential kinksters experience many reactions as they think about making the big plunge. Among their most common self-questions is, “Am I abnormal for even thinking about _____?”

Another very common thought is, “I have these dark urges.” These negative ideas serve to kill the kink for too many people.To address the first one, thinking about getting your kink on is completely normal. You’re an adult, and you get to decide how you live and what you do. Others shouldn’t be dictating what you do.

Kinky people are just like everyone else. They’re Democrats, Republicans, rich, middle class, poor, every color in the rainbow, etc. BDSM is play and it’s supposed to be fun! How normal is that? (answer: TOTALLY)

Now to the second point. Kink is bright. It’s vivid, compelling, and helps people to form special bonds, even if only during a play session. People associate words like dungeon, whip, collars, etc, with darkness, or something weird. It’s just the opposite.

What it is that we do (wiitwd) is actually about connections, communications, deep feeling, and FUN.Your life is a story, and you’re the author. We’re all writing the tale as we go, in full living color. BDSM can add so so much rich texture to the chapters.

Yours in kink,
the hkc

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